Monday, September 16, 2019

Sheer bliss in being loved and loving back


Young Mary humbled herself, broke open an alabaster jar, and poured costly perfume over Jesus’ head.

Guests in the room, indignant, scolded her for the waste.

But Jesus said, “Leave her alone. She did what she could. Wherever the Good News is preached throughout the world, this woman’s deed will be remembered.”

In her small but powerful book, She Did What She Could: Five Words of Jesus that Will Change Your Life, author Elisa Morgan sheds light on Mark 14:3-9 for us.

Jesus loved Maryand Mary knew it.

Mary carried out an extravagant, expensive act of worship because she loved Jesusand Jesus knew it.

Elisa said,
Mary had
“absorbed in her soul
how very much he truly cared.”

“She acted out of her love. She knew that Jesus loved her, and she loved him back. She lived loved,” writes Elisa. “That’s the whole point of the gospel, isn’t it?”

Lloyd Ogilvie tells the story of meeting with a friend who was usually grumpy, a man with a negative attitude. But one day, his friend acted like a new person. “His face was radiant, his voice had a lilt to it, and he was full of fun. ’What happened to you?’ I asked.

“He burst out the good news, ‘She loves me!’ The lady he’d dated for years finally confessed her love for him, leaving him a radically changed man. “It’s amazing! Being loved, really knowing you’re loved, gives me a wonderful feeling of freedom.” (Silent Strength for My Life)

Think back to a time when someone acknowledged his or her deep, abiding love for you.

How did that love change you?

I’m guessing it melted your heart—even remade your heart. Your anxieties lessened, you relaxed around him or her, and life seemed so good, so right, so settled. Your perspective on everything changed for the better. And you wanted to express your gratitude and love in return, right?


“Now multiply the finest expression of human love
ten million times
and you have just begun to experience
the unlimited love the Lord has for us.”

Read that again.

The Bible describes God’s love for us
as unfailing (Psalm 6:4)
and everlasting (Jeremiah 31:3).

“Thinking about this love, building our whole lives around it,” Ogilvie says, “makes us joyous people who are free to enjoy life. It makes us free to give ourselves away, free to care, free to dare.”

Ogilvie’s talking about people who, in Elisa’s words, “live loved. 

And that brings us back to the past two week’s posts about our Old Testament friend, David, who lived loved.

David was just an imperfect guy like the rest of us. “He had feet of clay like the rest of us if not more so—self-serving and deceitful, lustful and vain,” writes Frederick Buechner, (Peculiar Treasures), but God in His unfailing, everlasting love, forgave him and transformed him. And called David a man after His own heart. And used him in mighty ways.

Once David grasped the enormity of God’s love for him, he responded with an overflowing love for God. David delighted in knowing God loved him and, as a result, David yearned to please God.

I have no doubt that because David lived loved, he longed to accomplish God’s purposes for his life, his generation.

Neither David nor Mary did what they did because
of a sense of duty or obligation or fear that,
if they failed to live up to God’s expectations,
they’d pay a price.

Instead, it was all about love,

utter bliss in being loved and loving back.

We—you and I—can make a difference in our world, for our generation, by living like David and Mary: by humbly carrying out God’s specific, unique purposes for our lives—as an act of love.

Elisa wrote, “…We—any of us—can change our world when we finally ‘get’ how much we are loved in a relationship with God. God’s love changes us. Radically. All of us. And when we are different, we make a difference in our world.”

Seventeen years before Dave and I moved to Africa, we lived at a remote mission center in Colombia, South America, working with Wycliffe Bible Translators (the same organization we worked with in Africa). There we worked with amazing colleagues, people who had asked themselves something similar to what Elisa Morgan asked: 

“What if I believed God loved me so much 
that I wanted to love Him back by doing what I could?”

A few months after arriving there, 

I was beginning to realize how much that bunch lived on the edge, especially our administrators and those working in and traveling to some of the world’s most isolated communities—our linguists and pilots. They were willing to take risks. Big risks. They had given their hearts to God who, in return, gave them a burning desire to go, even when it meant living dangerously. They offered Him their skills, careers, resources, families, and even their lives” (from Chapter 14 of my memoir, Please, God, Don’t Make Me Go: A Foot-Dragger’s Memoir, by Linda K. Thomas).

How’s that for living loved?

Yes, they lived loved, but remember:
They were just ordinary folks—
like you, like me—
slogging along because of God’s grace.

Fourteen years after leaving our jobs in South America, Dave and I moved to Africa where we met hundreds more people there who were just ordinary folks slogging along because of God’s grace, people who were living loved.

have you absorbed in your soul 
how very much God truly loves you?

Marie Chapian urges us to see ourselves 
the way God sees us. 

“If you were to think of yourself 
as I think of you, 
how different you would be” 




Let’s live loved, dear friends!

If we did, what would that look like?





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