Thursday, December 29, 2011

December 26, Boxing Day

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I wrote the following in a letter to my granddaughter, Maggie, after my first Boxing Day in Kenya—a surreal experience because it was my first time stepping into this subculture within the local culture. Everything caught me by surprise, from the food, to the skin color, to the accents.




On the day after Christmas, people in Great Britain celebrate Boxing Day, and here in this former British colony, white Kenyans—people of British or European background who settled here during the colonial period—observe Boxing Day, too, with horse races, ostrich races, and dog shows. They also set up booths and sell food, art, and jewelry.

A couple of our colleagues invited us to the Boxing Day celebration. There, nibbling on strawberries and cream, we found ourselves no longer in the minoritythrongs of white people surrounded us.

White Kenyans have their own culture here, separate from that of native Kenyans.… They make up the privileged class. They stick together, smoking and laughing, drinking and partying. Descendants of aristocratic early settlers, they own enormous tracts of land. White Kenyans have their suburban communities, country clubs, doctors, and favorite restaurant hangouts. As far as I can tell, they don’t exclude Africans, but those places tend to be white places.

White Kenyans speak in their clipped, crisp British wayno sloppy enunciations for them! We lazy-mouthed Americans drink “boddled wadder,” but they drink “boTT-l’d WOE-Tah.” We pronounce the word duty as “doody,” but they say “deuty.” We park our cars in a parking lot, but their drivers pull their motor vehicles into a “cah pahk.”

I couldn’t help but notice their customs, speech patterns, and interactions with each othera study of their unique culture within this culture. (From Chapter 4, Grandma’s Letters from Africa)

Have you ever gone to ostrich races? Click here to see a short, hilarious video clip.



9 comments:

  1. I love your description of the self made privileged whites! Have you ever read Don't Let's Go To The Dogs Tonight? It is of a white farmer family in Zambia and Zimbabwe and so characterizes their life. Very sad.

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  2. Hi, Shanda, I've heard of it but haven't read it. Thanks for alerting me to it.

    I hope you've had an enjoyable Christmas. I enjoy following you on your blog. :)

    Linda

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  3. I noticed that the whites do set themselves apart in Kenya. This bothers me, especially when it's the Christians who do it. The rules and traditions of man are often different from the teachings of Christ.

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  4. Oh I love reading these...God's world...everything different from mine..what a creative God we serve.

    My daughter-in-law is reading Kisses for Katie..and God is calling their hearts. They are planning on a mission trip to Africa this summer...my son went ten years ago. There is such joy and anticipation on what God will be doing with them...even if it is just a change in heart.

    Thanks for sharing this part of your life...for those of us who rarely even leave our city.

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  5. Such a rich little snippet and view into another culture,Linda! I can just see you "nibbling strawberries" as you look around at the sea of white faces. How fun it is to revisit all these little memories-for you and for us. I wonder if you have new insights as you revisit these vignettes? Thank you for sharing. Even though I have read the book, I love revisiting your experiences. Blessings,
    Kathy

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  6. Hi, Janette and Kathy, so nice to hear from you. :)

    Janette, I look forward to hearing more about your son and daughter-in-law's upcoming trip to Africa. They probably have no comprehension right now of what God is preparing for them there!

    Kathy, YES! I have new insights as I revisit these vignettes! This whole blogging experience is like writing another memoir. I'm seeing things I missed (a) in Africa at the time and (b) in compiling the memoir. That's part of the reason I am so enthusiastic about the genre of memoir -- the deeper we dig, the more we examine, the more we see God's activities and purposes. I see some things so much more clearly now, and especially how good God is and how involved He was back then. That, in turn, helps me know God is more involved and more trustworthy than I usually give Him credit for. It's humbling, but it's also faith-building. I suspect that's true for you, too, while you write your memoir, Kathy.

    Celebrating this new year with you!
    Linda

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  7. I loved this.

    It's great that you can share your African experience with us. So enlightening.

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  8. Hi, Janet, and thanks for visiting GLFA. Sometimes I have to pinch myself and ask, "Did I really live in Africa?!" Yes, I did. It's fun to look back on it.

    Happy New Year, Janet!

    Linda

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  9. Oh, goodness. No ostrich races here so far, but plenty of a different kind (think "brothers charging around the dining room table"), which may be just as wild and crazy in their own way.

    sighing...and smiling and waving...

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